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stripes and olive


There is a hidden gem of a strip mall outside of DC that has become my reprieve from city living. It's a dream for this city dweller --free parking, a well stoked Target, and the best TJ Maxx ever (I bought my Kate Spade wedding shoes there for $40!) Well, imagine my disappointment when I went a few weeks ago to indulge in some suburban retail therapy and I couldn't find anything. Sad, dejected, and having a Cher/All by Myself moment, I decided to stop into the Old Navy in the shared lot to find some retail redemption. I wasn't expecting much but have you been in an Old Navy lately? If so, why haven't you told me?!

I remember reading this article a few years ago and thinking, I'll believe it when I see it. Welp, I've seen it. My eyes lit up like the heart eye emoji when I saw this velvet blazer. And this jacquard open front jacket? So good, right?  I picked up this striped dress knowing it would make for a really easy layering piece. It's only $35, super soft, really thick and a work appropriate length. When I bought it, I imagined wearing it with tights, over the knee boots, and a vest when temperatures cool but it's been unseasonably warm here (it was 84 degrees yesterday!) so I welcomed the opportunity to go sans tights. Tights season is the worst season, ammiright? I also picked up this swing dress and have already worn it under a moto jacket out on the weekends and under a pashmina for work. 

If you haven't already, check out Old Navy. I bet you'll be pleasantly surprised with their Fall 2017 lookbook.

PS - Thanks for all your feedback on yesterday's post! I'm glad you're excited about the series, too!


a casual work environment


Remember last week when I super casually threw in the fact that I started a new job? Leaving my old job was a long time coming (more on that in the future) so I'm really enjoying the challenges that come with starting a new position -- learning processes, identifying areas for opportunity, meeting new people, etc. What is particularly exciting is the dress code for my new office is casual business casual or creative casual! So not quite casual like running errands on the weekend casual but jeans are totally acceptable and pencil skirts are not required. Praise a higher being! Getting dressed in the morning has become so.much.easier. 

Instead of reaching from my classic pumps each morning, I've been reaching for booties like this pair from Johnston & Murphy. The suede and leather are both buttery soft and the heel is just high enough to give my legs length but comfortable enough to wear all day (including my walking commute to the metro each morning). And perhaps most importantly, they go seamlessly from desk to drinks even if you don't work in a casual environment like I do.  Johnston & Murphy has always been committed to reinventing classics so a classic peep toe bootie works for a more traditional office but the grey suede makes gives the shoe a bit of edge for drinks or dinner after work. Win, win right? 

While you're poking around the Johnston & Murphy website, be sure to check out this illustration of their history. Any footwear good enough for the White House is definitely good enough for me.


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Thank you Johnston & Murphy for partnering with me on this post. As always you can trust that opinions are only my own.

pattern mixing with florals and stripes



There is something so effortlessly chic and stylish when it comes to pattern mixing -- when done the right way. And I'm sure you already have the pieces in your closet ready to be mixed, you just have to look at them the right way!

Stick to neutral colors when pattern mixing. You know, all my favorites like navy, black, tan. When you're mixing patterns, they key is to use to pieces and patterns in complimentary colors and neutrals are the easiest way to do that. In this outfit, I'm matching the navy in the stripes to the navy and purples in the skirt.

Start with stripes. Stripes are basically a neutral in my book but bonus points for stripes in a neutral color. Stripes are a really easy pattern to work with. Leopard print is another. And leopard print is definitely a neutral. Stick with thin stripes and try mixing with florals or leopard.

Keep accessories the same color. Here I'm wearing a cognac belt and shoes and carrying a cognac bag. The idea is to coordinate your shoes, purse, belt, etc with each other in a complimentary color. You don't want to add another pattern or color or the look may be too busy. Again, neutrals are key here.

A few notes about fit and what I'm wearing here..
  • This skirt runs a little big. I'm wearing a medium here. I'm usually a medium or large and the large was too big.
  • These wedges are summer perfection. They are comfortable for all day wear -- I'm talking on all day walking back and forth between meetings comfortable -- and can easily be worn dressed up or down. I wear them to work and on the weekends with cutoffs. Oh, and they're 30% off today.
  • I know Kendra Scott is a bit ubiquitous (especially in DC) but I think it's worth the money (especially if you can find a sale) to have a pair of her earrings in your jewelry closet. They are a super easy way to add a pop of color and a nice statement to an otherwise simple outfit.







all neutrals



I'm home, I'm home, I'm home!

After a marathon of travel yesterday beginning the day in New York, NY and ending the day in Oakland, CA with stops in DC and Chicago, I am so happy to be at home, snuggling with my mama while we debrief all of the Real Housewives we've missed. And while my mom may have moved from my childhood home recently, they say home is where your mom is and I can attest to that.

Aaron is with me and we have a full schedule of meetings with our wedding vendors, attending a wedding, and visiting with family. When I was packing for this trip, I was glad to leave behind the blazers and keep it comfortable with denim and cotton -- the fabrics of my heart. DC style (and I would say the east cost overall) is more formal than the style here in the Bay Area so I'm happy to be casual chic with distressed denim and wedges. 

Is casual chic a love language? If so, I think it is mine.




LBD all star





I like to do little assessments of my closet here and there to see if I’m missing anything or if I should get rid of something to make way for something new. A few weeks back I realized I was missing a critical closet staple: a little black dress!

What?!


Now before you go revoking my blogger card you should know that I made finding the perfect LBD a priority and can say that I was successful in my mission. I found this dress at Nordstrom and immediately bought it. In the interest of full disclosure, I happened to stumble across an identical version at my local TJ Maxx for half the price a week later so I returned the ASTR dress and am wearing the TJ Maxx dress here. But for all intents and purposes, the dress is the same and it is now the reigning queen of my closet. And you should get it too.


The ASTR dress is universally flattering. It is a shift dress but not cut too tight and the lining is a few inches shorter than the overlay which leaves a cute peek of skin but doesn’t show too much skin that it isn’t work appropriate. The fabric is thick and holds shape but isn’t too thick meaning it covers everything you want covered without feeling heavy.

The textured lace floral print is the best part because the pattern can be dressed up or down. I’ve worn it casually a few times (as seen here) but it is so easy to throw on a blazer, summer scarf, or heels to make it appropriate for the office.

It comes in a variety of colors like coral and rose but I'll probably pick up white for probably obvious reasons. I'm a white dress addict, friends! 








yes, you need a jumpsuit


A jumpsuit can be one of the most versatile pieces in your closet. Trust me on this, ladies.  I’ve already written about wearing a jumpsuit for date night and work but this jumpsuit from Tobi could easily be worn for date night or something more formal. Showing up to an outdoor summer wedding in a jumpsuit? Yep.  Cooking out during the summer in a Jumpsuit? Yes mam. Jumpsuit for hanging around the house? Eh, okay but only if you insist. && I do.

Also, let’s not forget the number one reason you should have a jumpsuit in your repertoire.  It is basically a onesie that is appropriate for wear outside of the home. Comfort wear in public makes my heart flutter. 

Some notes about fit here if you're new to shopping at Tobi:
  • This jumpsuit runs wide on top for any well endowed women. I am not well endowed so I took the back in a smidge. 
  • The material is really comfortable but has little to no give. It fits TTS. 
  • I'm wearing 4 inch heels and I think 3 1/2 or 3 3/4 heels would be a better fit.
  • The jacket runs big so size down. I love the drapey look but didn't want it to be overbearing so I sized down and it fit great. 


Don't forget you get 50% off your first purchase at Tobi! So its the perfect place to test out trends for this summer like,  rompers jumpsuits and bodysuits,





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Compensation in the form of complementary apparel from Tobi was offered in exchange for this post but as always, my view is solely mine. Thanks for supporting the brands that support my hobby!

off the shoulder

Photos by Kristyn

I finally caved to the off the shoulder trend. I held out for a while thinking it was a trend I was only interested in because it was flooding my social feeds. And perhaps that flooding is what planted the seed but there is something so casual chic about off the shoulder that really speaks to my personal style mojo.  Comfortable, boho, and laid back are three of my favorite words when describing apparel and this off the shoulder and Tobi bralette combo fits the bill. Throwing on heeled sandals dresses this up, but I could very easily wear this dress without the belt and espadrilles for a day of running errands.

Some notes about fit here…

  • This dress runs huge. Like Donald Trump yuge. I sized down two sizes and it’s still not as shapely as I would like. It’s a really light cotton and super affordable but I don’t expect to have it last longer than the summer.
  • I’m wearing a bralette from Tobi and I am obsessed. At $7, their bralettes are my new favorite undergarment. They are soft, fitting, and I love wearing them with deep v necks to show a little peek of lace.
  • I’m still loving these shoes but they do take some breaking in. Or a few glasses of wine and they won’t feel snug.
  • I'm also loving Tobi for affordable summer trends! New customers get 50% off their first purcahse! Shop my favorite dressesrompers, and jumpsuits!







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Compensation in the form of complementary apparel from Tobi was offered in exchange for this post but as always, my view is solely mine. Thanks for supporting the brands that support my hobby!






what i (actually) wore to work


Happy Tuesday, friends!

I imagine that you’re probably somewhat like me and that you are perusing blogs in an effort to procrastinate at work. It’s okay – we’re all in the same boat here.  I’ll make another assumption here and suggest that you’re probably not sitting at work procrastinating wearing ripped jeans. You’re in some form of business casual. But color me jealous if you are wearing ripped jeans to work.


I love sharing all sorts of outfits but in all reality, I wear business casual four out of seven days a week meaning I’m in business casual more often than not. Truthfully, I think developing personal professional style takes more effort than developing your personal weekend style because you have to follow guidelines or rules with you professional style.


I plan to pepper in more workwear posts here and highlight versatile pieces like this shift dress. I bought this dress for a wedding and wore it with strappy sandals. It can be dressed up with a blazer and pumps like seen here or with jean jacket and white Converse low tops at a casual work event. It can be work with tights during winter or bare legged for spring. The cost per wear for this dress has to be less than $5 which makes it a true closet staple.

Something very important to note in this post -- these shoes are the most comfortable heels I've ever worn and are only $30. I repeat these are comfortable work heels for $30! I have them in black too and they match everything. The sole is padded and the heel is 3.5 inches so its a comfortable all day height. 

Unfortunately my dress is from last season but I've rounded up a whole lot of shift dresses for you to check out.


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on friendships

Banana Republic Trench Coat | J. Crew Striped Tee (25% off with the code SHOPSALE) | J.Crew Factory Denim (DIY Distressed - tutorial here) | Bauble Bar bib |  Madewell Tote (25% off with the code INTHEFAM) | Karen Walker sunnies borrowed from Kristyn (25% off with the code INTHEFAM) )  | Similar loafers
Pictures: Kristyn of Primp and Proper

This past weekend, Aaron and I had brunch with two of my old roommates. I lived with them during (for lack of better words) a strange period of my life. Without divulging too many details, since that is not the point of the post, I lived with them during a major period of unintended transition in my life and pretty significant struggle. I was thinking about moving home, was confused about the future of my relationship, and questioning my sense of place in DC.

I found an empty room on Craigslist, which is a totally normal way to find roommates here btw, without much hope to build relationships with them. Quite frankly, I had low expectations for my living situation. The room was super affordable, the house was well located, and the roommates were normal; I wasn’t looking for much more. I hoped to leverage the short term lease for some clarity and space and that time would help me make some of these major decisions hanging over me.

Well, I found that and more. My roommates turned out to be really incredible and fascinating people, and in relationships with equally as terrific of people. And if not for this serendipitous housing arrangement, our paths probably would have never crossed.

We don’t have many friends in common aside from each other so we have to be intentional about meeting up. We try to grab brunch every few months and it’s always as if we saw each other just the day before. The conversation flows as steadily as the mimosas and it’s not just the surface level stuff (though we do make time to catch up about Real Housewives). Brunch turns into an all day affair full of real life chats, laughs, and more mimosas. These are really special friends and the type of people you feel really lucky to have in your life. The type of friends who make your heart feel full and your mind at peace. All because I responded to a posting on Craiglist during what I thought to be a life pit.

It’s in these life moments devoid of expectation, like finding roommates on Craigslist, where blessings seem to be most plentiful. Too often we wear our expectations like lenses which can blind us from seeing the opportunity the Universe intentionally puts on our path. I’m the first to admit I get caught up in expectations but this weekend was the reminder I needed to start my week. So, let my brunch serve as your reminder, too. Life works in funny ways. Remove your blinders and keep your eyes open so you don’t miss it.









hanami


Seasonal Affective Disorder is real, y'all, and despite having lived on the east coast for almost 5 years now (omgosh, what?) I still haven't adjusted to the long winters. This particular winter was mild; we hardly had any debilitating snow storms. But despite, winters here last from early December until mid March. That's a long time for this native Californian! I may not have grown up on the warm and sunny beaches of Southern California but the winters in Northern CA, while cold, still had bright sunlight which makes them all the more bearable. Winters here are very challenging for me which is why the cherry blossoms at the Tidal Basin are really meaningful to me personally.


A quick 30 second history lesson for you first: the cherry blossoms at the Tidal Basin were gifted to the people of the United States from the people of Japan in 1912. Over 3000 trees from a lineage of trees on the Arakawa River in Tokyo were given to the United States to be seeded along the Potomac River. The first two trees were planted by First Lady Helen Taft and Viscountess Chinda, the wife of the Japanese Ambassaor, as a symbol of a diplomatic friendship. The United States reciprocated the gift by gifting flowering dogwood tress to the Japanese in 1915.

The trees bloom for small window of time that varies annually based on the weather. DC celebrates every year with a two week festival with a fireworks, parades, kites, galas and more. Dozens hundreds Thousands of people flock to DC to get a glimpse of the trees and the city is packed.


The cherry blossom full bloom signifies the the start of spring in DC. The energy of the city really changes and people are out and enjoying all the beauty the city has to offer. Myself very much included. Kristyn and I decided to head down to the Tidal Basin early one morning to enjoy the trees without the crowds and it was far more magical than I expected. Our idea was to head down, enjoy a quiet morning, catch some good light for pictures and head to work. All of which we did.

But the tranquility of the morning, the quiet of the water, and the enjoyable company was far more impactful than anticipated. I know I struggle with seasonal depression but it's one of those sentiments that is only clear after the fact. I've admittedly struggled with depression in my 20's -- something I'm not ashamed or embarrassed to share. As such, I've learned tools and mechanisms to nip it in the bud when I can feel the familiar feeling creeping back. But for some inexplicable reason, I don't find myself as self aware during the winter which is as blue as it is frustrating. So the cherry blossoms are a spring awakening and this particular morning offered me the opportunity to catch my breath, exhale, and find enjoyment in the simple things.


A good friend of mine lived abroad in Japan for two years and taught me the meaning of hanami. Hanami literally means flower viewing but is a practice as well. Hanami is a the practice of taking time to enjoy a picnic or celebration under the beauty of the blooms. I repeat, it is a custom to take a break, celebrate with friends and enjoy the the springtime. What a genius idea, right? I could use some more hanami in my life. Couldn't we all?

This practice serves as a good reminder to take that time for ourselves and revel in the natural beauty the world gives us -- no matter how dark we may have seen the winter to be.


So, peace out winter. You will not be missed.

(Until it is 105 degrees with 10482348% humidity in July...)